Melissa's Story—Coming of Age

Turning 21 in Utah
By Melissa Salcedo

For many young adults, turning 21 years old is a milestone. In Utah, the majority of the population belongs to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. For some of the young adults who belong to this faith, their 21st birthday is no different than any other birthday. Few others disagree and think a 21st birthday is a big deal.

Rachel Hammond celebrated her 21st birthday last week. Her friends had a small party for her, which consisted of everyone sitting around, talking and eating cupcakes. “I’m not into clubs, but it would have been fun,” the Provo native said. Something Hammond is looking forward to is going on an LDS church mission, which is something she could not do before since women have to be 21 years old to serve missions.

Kraig Williams, 22-years-old, went out to dinner with his parents for his 21st birthday. “My dad offered to buy me a beer but I declined,” he said. Williams, who is not LDS, does not care much to drink alcohol. Most of his friends are LDS, so he doesn’t drink alcohol, but if he had more friends who did drink then he would as well.

For other young adults, turning 21 is something that is exciting and they look forward to it.

Candice Fitzgerald is only 19-years-old and already has plans for her 21st birthday party. “I’m going to Las Vegas and I’m going to go dance on the bar at Coyote Ugly,” she said excitedly. She wants to turn 21 mainly so that she can get into clubs and won’t have to worry about needing a fake I.D.

Turning 21 years old is significant for Sarah Edinborough. “I’m excited because it’s the age where you feel grown up,” she said. “The rest of the world finally takes you seriously.” Edinborough had plans for spring break with her friends to go on a cruise, but had to cancel those plans when she learned that at least one person in each room had to be over 21 years old. She too plans on going to Las Vegas once she turns 21.

Being able to drink alcohol or gamble is not something that most LDS young adults have in mind as their 21st birthday approaches. Turning 21 is a big step because it signifies maturity.

“When you’re 19 or 20-years-old, people still think you’re a child,” says Haley Folta. “As you get older every year, people think you’re more legit. 21 is even more legit than 20.”

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